Wednesday, April 07, 2010

On Marrying Late

Here's a piece of interesting news... It was in the Star 2 weeks back.

Apparently, Malaysians are getting married later nowadays.

Some department did some research saying the average marrying age of Malaysians has increased from 23 to 27, something like that...

Various reasons given includes financial instability, have yet to find the right person, and the more ridiculous reason I thought was, scared of commitment! Like, what the heck? You haven't even try, why give up?

But what made me puzzled was this highlighted paragraph:

Exactly!

Why only blame it on the women?

I mean, yes sure, men's sperm production doesn't cease until after death. But it's true that women only have that certain amount of eggs and eventually they'll be egg-less after menopause. Plus, there are a lot of risk factors for single unmarried childless sexually inactive ladies, cervical cancer being one. Not that I'm encouraging ladies to have pre-marital sex and make babies, but, that's what medically proven.

But anyways, I thought it's a good thing the population growth shall slow down. It kills off the economy somehow, but we've got too huge a population boom on this planet I think we should slow down.

I might be wrong. I know it's a very narrow-minded view.

Besides:

Yes, totally agree!

But anyhoos, what the heck, 10.4% of the single males in Sarawak are enjoying single life. LOL.

12 Jujus:

[SK] said...

hmmm, there are all sorts of reasons that one can give for not getting married - and 90% blames anything else other than themselves.. :p

smallkucing said...

"and the more ridiculous reason I thought was, scared of commitment" is not as ridiculous as you think.

Reanaclaire said...

sounds like u r on the marrying last side.. dont let your parents know that.. hahahaa..

Naomi said...

Like [SK] said, you can give a lot of excuse. Some couple have been together for too long, till that they don't bother to get married. Some just haven't found their other half, so not married lor. Some too choosy. Some no confident, bla bla bla bla

KY said...

Now you are making me nervous!! As I'm 22 now, just another 10 years for me. LOL.
Our mentality changes accordingly with surrounding, and we don't need any excuse especially when it comes to marriage. Who are they to bother about us?

Danny said...

i only know that i belong in the others* category....lol ;p

said...

so, do u wanna get marry? :P

Anonymous said...

so im actually helping in controlling the oversize population? should i be proud? lolll...

William said...

Will I even get married?

manglish said...

most men have commitment issues even without getting married haahhaha...u shud know wat....:p

blue said...

which category u belong to then? :P

the viennamese said...

You sound like a feminist! HAHAHA