On Keeping that Facial Hair

I have hots for men who has some facial hair. But of course not those bushy full blown bear that when a fly accidentally flew in it won't find its way out and die and rot deep inside those bushy hair. I like something like, 5 o'clock shadow, or a manicured scruff, but the chin strap is definitely something to look at. But all these only applies when the guy knows tonnes about keeping them facial hair well trimmed and taken care of.

So I, on the other hand, thought I could keep something, in the hope that I could get some goatee with a little bit of moustache, since my sideburn stop growing below the level of the mouth and most of the hairs I got on my face are on my chin and some above the upper lips.

I tried to keep them short alright. But sometimes it's just too troublesome trimming, and I ended up shaving them instead. But I guess that's why the facial hair keeps growing, and is becoming more and thicker as time goes by. Not thick enough for those bushy stuff alright, but when it's about 3cm long, they'll make quite an ugly picture of myself, as if I haven't been cleaning up.

So when the parents came over a couple of weeks ago, Mum commented, Dad commented, and even the sis said I looked like some loser who just broke up or lost his job or something like that. I of course protested, saying it's the IN thing nowadays, which probably wasn't true. But I started pointing out to her that there are a lot of guys keeping them as well, that when we walked around in the mall, easily 2 out of 10 have them hairs.

Only problem is, 80% of them facial hairs keeper are Malays or Indians. It was quite a hard time stopping her from commenting I look untidy and all (which I might be to some), so I started to look for Chinese guys particularly, who keep them hairs.

And she still wasn't happy. "You show me ONE doctor who keeps it then I'll allow you to."

"Here." The male nurse blogger. Provided she'd stop being so homophobic. Though I think she'd most probably say he's not a doctor.

I rolled my eyes, literally. I mean, fine, I have yet to see a Chinese doctor who keeps them goatee and moustache. But there was a male nurse in the trauma centre who has, and he's wearing those black-framed rectangular specs like what I had, and he looked damn cute!

If only she could see what I'm looking at.

I solemnly swear I'm not stalking him. And I've stopped going to his designs in the malls now that I'm in love with erm, erm, some other brands. >.<

My new year wish: A very fertile facial hair I could experiment with! LOL